#1 Watch the signs. Do you see a change in your partner’s
behavior recently? Have they started working out, dressing better, or
started using a new seductive intense evening perfume? They may have no
reason for the changes, and almost always, these changes may seem very
spontaneous.
#2 Drop by unannounced. Every now and then, drop by
unannounced to their workplace or come back home early. Don’t make it
obvious that you’re just spying on them. Instead, always have a great
excuse to walk in unannounced. If your partner is cheating on you, the
first thing they’d do *instead of welcoming you with a smile* is hide
something or appear surprised or even angry!
#3 Check their recycle bin. The garbage is a great place to
dispose of things. And sometimes, it also has a lot of clues. If your
partner is on the computer often, check the computer’s recycle bin
often. Chances are, there may be another person’s photo or a little
snippet of information that could be of some use.
#4 Snoop on their phone. Does your partner carry their cell
phone with them wherever they go, even if it’s a trip to the loo? If
that’s happening in your relationship, there’s a good chance your
partner’s up to something. Take a peek into their cell phone when you
get the chance, especially when they’ve put the phone on charge.
Erased phone logs, a password protected phone, several calls to the
same unknown numbers, or phone bills without detailed call information
are all good signs that your partner is trying to hide something.
#5 Spontaneous sex. This works better if you’re a girl, and
dating a guy. If your boyfriend or husband comes home late from any
unexpected delay, try to have spontaneous sex with them when they get
back home. If your guy gets angry, pushes you away or tries avoiding it
at all costs, chances are, he may be exhausted down there. He could
always wash himself up before getting home, but getting it up
immediately and blowing a huge load, that’s not the easiest thing to do!
#6 Follow after a fight. Most cheating partners intentionally
try to pick fights, slam the door and walk away, because it makes a
great excuse to slip out of the house and meet their adulterous lover.
If your partner’s been picking fights and walking out of the house often
recently, try to follow them on the pretense of apologizing *if they
see you following them*.
#7 Change your sleeping habits. If your partner’s cheating on
you, their sleeping habits may change almost overnight. They may stay up
longer using the excuse of work, or you may catch them sneaking around
the house late at night. Pretend like you’re asleep as soon as you hit
the bed, and try to see if your partner’s up to something. Do they get
out of bed for long periods of time?
And it’s not just late nights you need to think about. Some cheating
partners may even wake up really early and get on the phone, especially
if they realize you suspect them.
#8 Does your partner want space? Space is something all of us
need in a relationship, whether we accept it or not. But has your
partner started getting fiercely protective about their space recently?
Do they hate answering questions about where they’ve been or what
they’ve been up to? It’s definitely a small warning sign.
#9 They get jumpy. Try walking in on your partner when they
least expect it without announcing yourself, especially if they’ve been
by themselves for a while. Does your partner act jumpy or nervous when
you walk in on them, especially if they’re over the phone or in front of
their computer? They were probably doing something and they don’t want
you to know what it was.
#10 Changes in schedule. All of a sudden, your partner may
stay out a lot of nights on work, or have a lot of get-togethers on
their social calendar with their friends. If your partner doesn’t ever
invite you with their friends, or if they claim to be very busy working
and still look fresh and happy when they get home, your partner’s
probably up to something.
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